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Jay Adams Is Deep and Compassionate

Friday, January 27th, 2012

Jay Adams Is Deep and Compassionate

My two-hour flight home from two days of team meetings at Capital Bible Seminary provided some time for reflection. In particular, I pondered Jay Adams’ nouthetic counseling model. 

Here’s a summary of my “second look” at Adams.

Jay Adams Was/Is a Model Builder and a Movement Builder 

While the Puritans were great builders of soul care and shepherding models, since their day few Christians have developed, from scratch, a biblically-based approach to people, problems, and solutions. Adams has done so…from scratch, not building on other current models, but building on God’s Word.

Whether or not you agree with Jay Adams’ model is not my point. My point is to affirm the facts: who else in Christian circles in the past fifty years has independently built a unique, new, fresh, comprehensive approach to counseling?

Add to that…a model that became a sustained “movement.” The “biblical counseling movement” is now entering its third generation. It has grown, changed, and developed as Powlison’s book and Lambert’s book indicate. But it traces its roots to Jay Adams.

I try to imagine what it must have been like to be starting from scratch in the early 70s. Counseling every day, studying Scripture, applying truth to the lives of hurting and hardened parishioners, teaching others, writing books, and shepherding a growing movement. Again, disagree with “the movement” if you want to, but let’s give Jay Adams credit for the massive work of building a fresh model and a sustained movement while pastoring/shepherding/counseling real folks with real life issues.

Jay Adams Was/Is a Comprehensive Theorizer 

While the Puritans were great soul physicians developing theological manuals about the soul, since their day few Christians have developed a counseling/shepherding/pastoring-focused theological and practical manual. Adams has.

Yes, many today are penning “Christian counseling” and “biblical counseling” books. But few seek to provide a comprehensive theology/theory of people, problems, and solutions. Adams did throughout his writings, and particularly with A Theology of Christian Counseling: More Than Redemption, The Christian Counselor’s Manual, and Competent to Counsel.

In the past fifty years a few others have sought to develop a comprehensive theory of Christian/biblical counseling: Larry Crabb with Understanding People and his other writings, Eric Johnson with Foundations of Soul Care, myself with Soul Physicians and Spiritual Friends. While these authors vary greatly from one another, they have in common writing not only about particular counseling issues and practical counseling methods, but seeking to develop a comprehensive Christian theory. Adams paved the way.

Like or dislike his theory/model, but don’t call him shallow. Disagree with him at specific points if you decide to, but do it engaging his actual (copious) writings, not as a broad brush stroke: “He’s not deep,” or “He’s too ________.” It’s easy to make those charges about anyone…in the abstract…

Here’s one specific example. Some claim that Adams’ “dehabituation and rehabituation” model is shallow and behavioral. Anyone saying that should read Kent Dunnington’s Addiction and Virtue. While I suspect that Adams might disagree with a decent amount of Dunnington’s book, nonetheless, the book demonstrates that “habit” is a deeply theological and philosophical construct with literally 1,000s of years of history behind it.

Dunnington builds a sophisticated case that habit is anything but “behavioralistic.” Habit, rightly understood, as Adams did, is about motivations of the heart—how they are structured, deconstructed, and reconstructed. Again, disagree with Adams “take” on “habituation” if you wish, but at least engage the depth of his insights with specific reasons for disagreement…

Jay Adams Was/Is a Rare Combination: A Theologian/Practitioner 

I’ve already “hinted at” this category. Jay was doing all of this “theological theorizing” while pastoring, shepherding, discipling, and equipping. His in-depth thinking about the Bible’s truth about people, problems, and solutions was never done as some “ivory tower academic.” It was never uncoupled from the real life struggles that parishioners and counselees were bringing to him daily.

Fifty years later, we have some folks who are good writers of theory/theology of biblical/Christian counseling. Some who are good writers of practice/methodology of biblical/Christian counseling. Some who are good counselors-practitioners. Few combine all these talents.

Agree or disagree with Jay, but let’s give him his due. He was/is that rare combination of theologian/practitioner, thinker/doer, visionary/movement builder.

Jays Adams Was/Is Compassionate 

This header, perhaps more than others, may be met by some with dismay and statements like: “But Jay and nouthetic counseling are all about harsh confrontation!” First, that in itself is an inaccurate and unfair caricature.

Second, while Jay’s writing and counseling style may not be as “warm and fuzzy” and “empathetic” as some of us may prefer, that’s different from assessing his level of heart compassion. Think about one of Jay’s basic definitions of nouthetic counseling: to confront out of concern for change.

Real people were coming to Jay. They had been to “secular counselors” and their problems in living were not being addressed effectively and biblically. They had been to their pastors who either provided warmed-over secular therapy or admitted that they had no training in pastoral care.

These hurting, struggling folks were coming to Jay with their besetting sins. He strove to help them biblically to change for good. By “for good,” I’m implying both: a.) for the long term, and b.) for good and godly motivation: for God’s glory and so they could minister more effectively in the lives of others.

People were stuck in their sins and Jay wanted to turn to the Bible to help people change. That strikes me as compassionate.

Pastors sensed that they lacked competence to help their hurting parishioners. Ministers lacked confidence in the Bible’s ability to address the real life issues their sheep were struggling against. Jay sought to help pastors, in particular, to regain their confidence in God’s Word and to develop competence in using God’s Word to help their flock. That strikes me as compassionate.

What’s Up with Bob?

Some may be wondering, “What’s up with you, Bob? When did you become Jay Adams’ ‘apologist’?” I’m not anyone’s apologist. Jay Adams does not need me to “defend” him. I’m simply sharing some reflections from 36 hours ago at 36,000 feet.

Others may be wondering, “Who are you targeting with this blog post? Who are you taking shots at?”

No one.

Well, if anyone, perhaps myself.

Perhaps in taking “a second look,” I am doing some “nouthetic self-confrontation” regarding my past level of appreciation for Jay Adams as a model builder, movement builder, comprehensive theorizer, theologian/practitioner, and compassionate care-giver.

If that same shoe fits for you, then you can choose to wear it also.

My “model” and my “style” still are not identical to Jay’s nouthetic counseling. However, that doesn’t mean that I can’t deeply appreciate and respect who he is in Christ and what he has done for the Body of Christ through Christ’s grace.

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False Comfort

Wednesday, June 1st, 2011

False Comfort 

Anyone who follows my ministry knows that I deplore one-dimensional biblical counseling.

Frank Lake said it so well over a generation ago.

“Pastoral care is defective unless it can deal thoroughly both with the evils we have suffered and with the sins we have committed.”

Others have noted that we need to comfort the afflicted and afflict the comfortable. Truly biblical counseling is both parakaletic (offering God’s comfort for suffering) and nouthetic (offering God’s care-fronting for sin).

Counseling that only confronts sin is only half-biblical counseling. The one-dimensional error, of course, can trend either way.

Peace, Peace

In Jeremiah’s day, the arrow pointed toward false comfort. Jeremiah chastised false prophets and false priests who practiced deceit.

“They dress the wound of my people as though it were not serious. ‘Peace, peace,’ they say, when there is no peace” (Jeremiah 6:14).

Someone recently said to me (names have been changed), “Doug has been such a source of comfort for Mike.” The problem was, Doug was “comforting” Mike in Mike’s clear violation of God’s Word.

As Jeremiah went on to say,

“Are they ashamed of their loathsome conduct? No, they have no shame at all; they do not even know how to blush” (Jeremiah 6:15).

Soul Rest

What Mike needed wasn’t false comfort, but true caring—truth in love (Ephesians 4:15; Philippians 1:9; 1 Thessalonians 2:8). Again, Jeremiah instructs us.

“This is what the LORD says: ‘Stand at the crossroads and look; ask for the ancient paths, ask where the good way is, and walk in it, and you will find rest for your souls’” (Jeremiah 6:16).

Fascinating. You want to bring comfort—soul rest—to someone who is sinning, then speak the truth in love. Care-front.

False comfort leads to false peace which leads to false rest which leads to internal distress. “Comfort,” both in the English and in the Greek means “co-fortitude.”

As another person joins me in a journey of truth and love, I am fortified to live a life of truth and love. And only a life of love as defined by God’s Word—His truth—provides rest for the soul, true peace, shalom.

God’s Holy Love

God’s love is holy love. He will not wink at our sin. Further, He will not allow our sin to satisfy.

“I appointed watchmen over you and said, ‘Listen to the sound of the trumpet!’ Buy you said, ‘We will not listen.” Therefore…I am bringing disaster on this people, the fruit of their schemes, because they have not listened to my words and have rejected my law…. I will put obstacles before this people…” (Jeremiah 6:17, 18a, 19b, 21b).

In grace, God destroys our false works. In grace, God topples the idols of our hearts. In grace, the false lovers of our soul fail to satisfy our soul.

In love, God calls sin, “Sin!” In love, Christ confronted our sin with His death—that’s how seriously God takes sin. Internally serious wounds require an eternally serious cure.

Peace with God and the peace of God comes only as we surrender to the God of peace. And He is a God of Holy Love. He alone offers us true comfort.

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Why do we so easily fall off the proverbial pendulum either toward unloving confrontation or false comfort?

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A Reading Recommendation

Wednesday, June 10th, 2009

A Reading Recommendation

If you’re dropping in to read Part 8 in Why Some Biblical Counseling Is Only Half Biblical, I’ve decided to take an unplanned one-day hiatus from that topic.

Why?

I spent the last 2.5 hours devouring a dissertation! I know. I’m boring!

Worse yet, it was a dissertation on the history of counseling. I know. I’m really boring!

The worst of all, I even wrote a dissertation on the history of counseling (Martin Luther’s Pastoral Counseling (http://tinyurl.com/ovw588). But, that’s not the dissertation I read this morning.

I read Competent to Counsel?: The History of a Conservative Protestant Anti-Psychiatry Movement by David Powlison and about Jay Adams and Nouthetic Counseling.

Dr. Powlison is a disciple of Dr. Adams, so this is no “hatchet job.” This is a Fox-News-Like “fair and balanced, we report, you decide history lesson.

If you’ve ever wondered about how nouthetic counseling got its start, if you’ve ever wondered about why it believes what it believes, if you’ve ever wondered how it relates to other Christian counseling movements in the past and present, then read this dissertation.

At least as of the date I purchased it, you could obtain a copy by contacting Resources for Changing Lives at RCL@ccef.org or by calling 1-800-318-2186. If that does not work, then Google the CCEF (Christian Counseling and Education Foundation).

Enjoy . . . being as boring as me! And . . . enjoy learning from the great cloud of witnesses.


PS: The image above is of David Powlison.